Humour Makes Better Relationship or Worsens It?

When humour is a quality of you and you use it appropriately, you bring joy, coziness and atmosphere with you. You balance the things of life and are able to give a different twist to the view of life through humour. It removes the heaviness of worry and connects people to each other. People often feel familiar and seen in the attention that humour gives them. With a surplus of good, so inappropriate use, that all goes away. Making a joke too often blocks the intrinsic conversation.

The Effects of Cynicism
Cynicism makes the other person crawl into his shell or just falls mad. The fool puts the other person in a joke and a too high degree of exuberance is overblown. In all this a sensible conversation is often impossible. Too much humour does not heal, but stands in the way of a real meeting or breaks any form of essential contact. Nevertheless, this quality in a family system can also be, or have been, a supporting force. It can be a way of ‘giving’ a child, helping his parents, saving brothers or sisters or keeping his individuality out of the wind.

As a Reminder
The question always remains whether the use of a quality is appropriate in relation to yourself and the other person. You will find out by consulting yourself or the way in which you use your humour well. You can also ask the other person if he feels right about the way in which you put your humour. You can discuss whether it makes or breaks your relationship. The question always remains whether the use of a quality is appropriate in relation to yourself and the other person. You will find out by consulting yourself or the way in which you use your humour well.

The Way of Saying It
You can also ask the other person if he feels right about the way in which you put your humour. You can discuss whether it makes or breaks your relationship. The question always remains whether the use of a quality is appropriate in relation to yourself and the other person. You will find out by consulting yourself or the way in which you use your humour well. You can also ask the other person if he feels right about the way in which you put your humour. You can discuss whether it makes or breaks your relationship.